There's A Freedom

There’s a freedom

Whisperin’ in my ear,

‘I’m here, I’m here.

Lay down your burdens

Sweet one,

‘Cause I’m here, I’m here.

Well your Daddy done

All right, and

Your Momma’s been up

Nearly every night

Hopin’, prayin’, wantin’

Your life to be so bright.

Yes, oh, yes

My dear,

They done all right

They done all right.

Let the past

Be past

And the night be night.

I say it’s time,

It’s time,

For you to

Come all the way Home

Tonight.’

Scott Patrick Schwenk     12/15/10

Forgiveness

This piece on Forgiveness is from Sri Svami Purna, and speaks so clearly about the nature of real Forgiveness, consonant with the teachings from A Course In Miracles on the true nature of Forgiveness. I hope you gain from it deeper and deeper capacities for releasing any and all grievances, past, present, and future... Love, Scott

Forgiveness

Svamiji: You ask about forgiveness … what is there to forgive in anyone? The very concept, based on strong Christian teachings, is not really appropriate. If you want to forgive anyone for a perceived wrong, that puts you in a morally superior position; it makes you the judge … giving remission of a supposed debt.

It is not helpful to feel superior; rather you should feel confident of yourself and make an effort to deal with the given situation. Try to understand that there was a mistake and make the other person aware, thereby also giving the opportunity to correct the mistake. Of course both sides have to evaluate the alleged wrong. However, if the other person does not see the situation in the same way, try to accept things as they are. Rather, endeavor to change them within the framework of your available resources. The important point is that you do your best – and hope for a resolution.

There is nothing to forgive. People have different levels of growth and understanding, based on upbringing, religion and cultural values. Considering the widely differing personalities, conflicts are bound to happen. You cannot change anyone. Often it is your own expectation that is the cause of anger toward anyone. This serves no other purpose than to make you miserable and unhappy.

Before you attempt to judge another, examine your own actions and expectations. You have to co-exist and communicate with others, despite different levels of consciousness. Whenever involved in human entanglements, sit quietly, detach and try to sort out the conundrum. By understanding the human complexity you can rise above it.

At times there may be a strong reaction by one of the “combatants”. In that case it may be prudent to drop the issue, although in principle a solution is always possible. Attitude alone stands in the way. Communication is always better than reaction. Recognizing the other person’s limitations is a form of forgiveness.

Human communication seems to be one of the biggest challenges in the world throughout the ages. It does help if at least one person is aware. However, if the other person feels guilty it is your responsibility not to take advantage of the guilty consciousness. That is the moment of real communication – and real mutual forgiveness. There is no doubt that spiritual practices are the most effective method to deal with human interaction on all levels.

The Guiltless World

"If you did not feel guilty you could not attack, for condemnation is the root of attack. It is the judgment of one mind by another as unworthy of love and deserving of punishment. But herein lies the split. For the mind that judges perceives itself as separate from the mind being judged, believing that by punishing another, it will escape punishment. All this is but the delusional attempt of the mind to deny itself, and escape the penalty of denial. It is not an attempt to relinquish denial, but to hold on to it. For it is guilt that has obscured the Father (Truth/Love/Reality) to you, and it is guilt that has driven you insane."

from A Course In Miracles, p.236